Charlton Heston
in Relationships

Charlton Heston responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Heston often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Charlton Heston must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Charlton's need for times of withdrawal.

Charlton Heston is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Charlton Heston takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Charlton Heston may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Heston has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. Charlton Heston wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Charlton is restless and something of a wanderer.

Charlton Heston often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Heston actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Charlton Heston to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Charlton Heston becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Heston can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Charlton Heston possesses a certain inner greatness and because of his inner qualities, he has the ability to influence others. People look to Heston for guidance and advice, and his leadership is easily accepted by those with whom Charlton Heston comes in contact.

Charlton Heston possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Charlton Heston will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Charlton does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Charlton Heston wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Charlton Heston appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Charlton Heston often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Charlton. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Charlton Heston may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Charlton Heston - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

Intimacy does not come easily to Charlton Heston and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Heston does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Charlton Heston needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

When it comes to love relationships, Heston is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Charlton Heston has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Charlton acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Charlton Heston to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Charlton becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Charlton Heston really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Charlton's closest relationships.

Charlton Heston has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Heston tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Charlton Heston might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Charlton Heston experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Charlton Heston has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Charlton Heston can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Charlton Heston tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once Charlton Heston enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.

Charlton Heston finds it easy to demonstrate his love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Heston tends to reveal his most personal feelings to people in his intimate circle of friends.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 9th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Conjunct Pluto/MC

Venus in Libra

Venus in 12th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.