Chad Allen
in Relationships

Open and generous, Chad Allen enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Allen rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Chad always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Chad Allen often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Allen, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Chad Allen to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Chad's aspirations and ideals. Chad Allen also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Chad Allen a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Chad's past are especially dear to him.

Chad Allen may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Chad Allen tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Chad feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Chad Allen also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Allen to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Chad Allen may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Chad Allen does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Allen tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Chad Allen enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

He is warm and affectionate in his relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around him. Chad Allen is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.

In love relationships, Chad Allen is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Chad enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Chad Allen responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

When he cares about someone, Chad Allen likes to serve them by doing small thoughtful favors, helping them, or doing something tangible to show his affection.

Chad Allen has also considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Chad is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in some way.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Chad Allen to be able to deeply respect his partner. Chad looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Chad Allen is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

It is absolutely essential for Chad Allen not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Chad tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Chad Allen will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.

He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Chad Allen to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Allen may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Chad Allen will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

It is easy for Chad Allen to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Chad likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Chad Allen is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Opposition Sun/Mercury

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 6th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Quincunx Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.

Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto