Cathy Downs
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Cathy Downs is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Cathy Downs is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Downs depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Cathy's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Cathy Downs may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Cathy Downs tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Cathy Downs could create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides her with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Cathy that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Cathy Downs craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.

Cathy Downs tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Cathy to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Cathy Downs may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

Cathy Downs seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Cathy likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. She is guided by her feelings and seems to live in a world of her own.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Cathy Downs values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Cathy desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Downs, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Cathy Downs appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Downs is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Cathy Downs thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Cathy's nature and Cathy Downs feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Downs. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Cathy Downs has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Cathy Downs to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Downs may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Cathy Downs will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Cathy Downs tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in her life. She is comfortable in talking to someone about her feelings toward them. Cathy Downs also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Cathy Downs seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Downs tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Cathy Downs has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in her surroundings. Very interested in art, she is likely to devote her life to beauty and art. She may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 7th house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC

Venus Conjunct Uranus/MC

Venus Conjunct Asc./MC