challenges and difficulties
Caroline Chikezie has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Chikezie knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyzes or picks things apart mentally. Caroline Chikezie may also be somewhat of a hypochondriac. Caroline must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
Her childhood or her relationship with her parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Caroline from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Caroline Chikezie feels that she was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether she actually was or not. Her early life - at least as Chikezie remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of her needs and feelings. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Caroline Chikezie needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Caroline accomplish this task.
Caroline Chikezie has a tendency to feel inadequate, perhaps even unlovable, and she tends to withdraw from others. Consequently, Chikezie may feel lonely and out of touch with everyone, and that she has no support from anyone.
Sometimes circumstances appear to be working against Caroline, and she may have to confront major challenges. Caroline Chikezie will probably have to work harder than others in order to succeed, thereby rendering her hard and cold hearted in her decision-making.
She may frequently feel hindered or oppressed by other people and may suddenly join forces with others in order to overcome difficulties. Caroline Chikezie seems to be afraid of her own courage and may find it hard to express her desires.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Caroline Chikezie instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Caroline Chikezie needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Her natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing her situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing her situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Caroline Chikezie copes with stress. Caroline Chikezie also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
Her development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Caroline Chikezie to function more efficiently in the world. Finding