Carlos Gardel
in Relationships
Open and generous, Carlos Gardel enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Gardel rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Carlos always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Carlos Gardel often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Gardel, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Carlos Gardel to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Carlos' aspirations and ideals. Carlos Gardel also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Carlos Gardel a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Carlos' past are especially dear to him.
Carlos Gardel may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Carlos Gardel has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Carlos' sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Gardel is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Carlos Gardel flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Carlos Gardel feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Carlos Gardel to learn. Carlos Gardel should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Carlos Gardel that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Gardel's neediness often drives others away. When Carlos Gardel does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Gardel will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Carlos Gardel will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Carlos Gardel thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.
He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Carlos Gardel immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
In love relationships, Carlos Gardel seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Carlos, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Carlos Gardel supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Carlos that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Carlos Gardel is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
For Carlos Gardel, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Carlos values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Carlos Gardel needs to beware of.
Carlos Gardel loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Carlos considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Carlos Gardel overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.
Carlos Gardel tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Carlos frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Carlos Gardel also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Carlos Gardel explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Gardel will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Carlos Gardel things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Gardel will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Carlos Gardel needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mars/Saturn
Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Opposition Pluto
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