Carlo Ponti
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Carlo Ponti denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Carlo Ponti needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Carlo Ponti also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Ponti gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Carlo Ponti makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Carlo Ponti needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Carlo Ponti flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Carlo Ponti feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Carlo Ponti to learn. Carlo Ponti should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Carlo Ponti cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Ponti's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Carlo at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Carlo Ponti is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Carlo Ponti may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Carlo desires.

Ponti is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Carlo Ponti thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Carlo Ponti in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Ponti is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Carlo Ponti at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Ponti is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Carlo Ponti has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Carlo acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Carlo Ponti falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Carlo to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Ponti's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Carlo Ponti, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.

Carlo Ponti tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Carlo frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Carlo Ponti also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Carlo Ponti to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Ponti may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Carlo Ponti will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 11th house

Moon Opposition Neptune

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 11th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto