Candice Shoaf
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Candice Shoaf denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Candice Shoaf needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Candice Shoaf also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Candice Shoaf has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Candice sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Candice Shoaf is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Candice cannot hide her emotions.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Candice Shoaf cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Shoaf's motto.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Candice Shoaf cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Shoaf's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Candice at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Candice Shoaf is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Candice Shoaf may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Candice desires.

Shoaf is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Candice Shoaf is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Candice uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Candice Shoaf does.

Candice Shoaf has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Candice frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Shoaf can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Shoaf's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Candice Shoaf to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Shoaf may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Candice Shoaf will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 1st house

Moon Trine Mars

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 1st house

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto