Calum Best
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Calum Best has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Calum Best is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Best for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Best's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Best. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Best gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Calum Best makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Calum Best needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Calum Best feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Best can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Calum's emotional indulgence - Best tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

His emotional life tends to be a bit strange and he is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Calum Best must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving him.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Calum Best values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Calum desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Best, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Calum Best appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Calum is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Calum Best feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Calum, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Calum Best tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Best's life.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Calum Best could fall in love with the wrong person. He may be too selfless and have the illusion that his only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Neptune/Asc.

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Conjunct Moon/Neptune