Caleb Deschanel
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Caleb Deschanel only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Deschanel.

Caleb has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Caleb Deschanel has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Caleb Deschanel to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Caleb Deschanel has a great deal of emotional depth.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Caleb, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

Caleb Deschanel frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Deschanel identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Caleb Deschanel has a cheering effect on those around him. Caleb likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.

There is another side to Caleb Deschanel as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Caleb Deschanel has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Deschanel would react more intensely. Caleb is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

In addition to Caleb's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Caleb Deschanel craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Deschanel rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Caleb Deschanel tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Caleb Deschanel can create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Caleb also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Caleb Deschanel craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

Caleb has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Caleb Deschanel has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Caleb Deschanel undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Caleb Deschanel possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Caleb Deschanel will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Caleb does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Caleb Deschanel wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Caleb Deschanel appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Deschanel is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Caleb Deschanel thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Caleb Deschanel is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Caleb Deschanel pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. Caleb Deschanel will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.

His personal relationships are very affectionate. Caleb enjoys the company of other people and has a harmonious attitude toward them. Caleb Deschanel also has a sense of art and may decorate his surroundings very artistically.

Caleb Deschanel has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in his surroundings. Very interested in art, he is likely to devote his life to beauty and art. He may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 12th house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Libra

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.

Venus Conjunct Asc./MC