Busta Rhymes in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Busta Rhymes rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Trevor Smith's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Trevor Smith may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Busta Rhymes difficult to live with. Busta Rhymes needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Busta Rhymes a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Busta Rhymes' past are especially dear to him.
Busta Rhymes may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
Busta Rhymes genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Busta Rhymes to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Trevor Smith also.
Trevor Smith is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, Busta Rhymes needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Busta Rhymes also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Busta Rhymes often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Although Trevor Smith gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Busta Rhymes to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
There is another side to Busta Rhymes as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Busta Rhymes often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Trevor Smith actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Busta Rhymes to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Busta Rhymes becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Trevor Smith can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
Although Busta Rhymes was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Busta Rhymes' fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Busta Rhymes does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Busta Rhymes is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Busta Rhymes tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Busta Rhymes may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Sensitive and sentimental, Busta Rhymes is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Trevor Smith to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Busta Rhymes seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Busta Rhymes likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Trevor Smith is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Busta Rhymes thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Busta Rhymes is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Busta Rhymes pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Busta Rhymes cannot or will not hold onto it. Busta Rhymes has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Trevor Smith's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Busta Rhymes freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Trevor Smith could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Trevor Smith also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Busta Rhymes just wants to have a good time.
It is absolutely essential for Busta Rhymes not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Busta Rhymes tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Busta Rhymes will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.
Busta Rhymes experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Busta Rhymes has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Busta Rhymes can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Busta Rhymes has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with his environment. Charming and friendly, he is on good terms with most of the people in his sphere. His friends and associates mean a lot to Busta Rhymes and his relationships are positive and loving.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.
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