Brigham Young
in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Brigham should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Young often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Young's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Brigham Young insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Brigham does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Brigham Young feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Brigham Young has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Young also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Brigham, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Brigham Young either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Brigham Young tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Young's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Brigham Young will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Brigham does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Brigham Young is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Brigham Young is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Brigham must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.
In a love relationship, Brigham Young is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Brigham likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Brigham Young becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Brigham Young's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Brigham Young needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Young finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Brigham Young very happy. Brigham wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Brigham Young may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Young is a natural host or diplomat.
Brigham Young has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Brigham to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Young. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Brigham Young to channel his passion.
Brigham Young loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Brigham considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Brigham Young overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Brigham Young is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Brigham and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Young's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Brigham Young experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Brigham Young has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Brigham Young can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Brigham Young tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Brigham Young also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.
Brigham likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Brigham Young seems to be real content and happy only when he is among other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Opposition Mars/Asc.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC
Venus Conjunct Mars/N. Node
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