Brian May
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Brian May inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Brian wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention May lavishes on those he cares about. Brian May has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Brian May hates emotional games and dishonesty.

May gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Brian May makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Brian May needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

May is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Brian May needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Brian May also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

Brian May has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Brian out for help, sympathy or advice. Brian May is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

Although May gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Brian May to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

There is another side to Brian May as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Brian May was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Brian May feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Brian's emotional well-being.

His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Brian May seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Brian has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. May can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.

Sensitive and sentimental, Brian May is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to May to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Brian May seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Brian likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Brian May very happy. Brian wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Brian May may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. May is a natural host or diplomat.

Brian May appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Brian May will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Brian May has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Brian May has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. May could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 11th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Conjunct Pluto

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 10th house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars

Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto