Brian Aherne
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Brian should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Aherne often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Aherne's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Brian Aherne insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Brian does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Brian Aherne feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Though he wants close relationships very much, Brian Aherne often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Aherne is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Aherne's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Brian Aherne is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Brian Aherne may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Brian could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Brian Aherne gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Brian Aherne may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Brian feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Brian Aherne idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Brian is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Aherne places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Brian Aherne feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Brian Aherne to be able to deeply respect his partner. Brian looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Brian Aherne is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

When it comes to love relationships, Aherne is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Brian Aherne has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Brian acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Aherne may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Brian Aherne craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Aherne, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Brian Aherne has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Brian frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Aherne can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Aherne's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

He is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Brian Aherne probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and his attachment to others is likely to be very deep.

He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Brian Aherne has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Brian also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.

Brian Aherne is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Aherne tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 8th house

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mars/Uranus

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Conjunct Moon/MC

Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter

Venus Opposition Uranus/Neptune