Brian Harvey in Relationships
Brian Harvey has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Harvey expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Brian Harvey dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Brian abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Brian Harvey inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Brian is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Harvey.
Brian Harvey becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Harvey feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Brian Harvey has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Harvey also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Brian, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Brian Harvey often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Harvey actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Brian Harvey to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Brian Harvey becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Harvey can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
Brian Harvey tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
Brian Harvey responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of his environment and has a need to reform those around him. Brian has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Harvey for guidance and direction, and he rarely lets them down.
Sensitive and sentimental, Brian Harvey is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Harvey to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Brian Harvey seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Brian likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Brian is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Brian Harvey feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Harvey may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Brian Harvey craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Harvey, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Brian Harvey does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto
Moon Opposition Pluto/Asc.
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Conjunct Saturn/MC
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