Brett Murphy
in Relationships
Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Brett Murphy inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Brett wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Murphy lavishes on those he cares about. Brett Murphy has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Brett Murphy hates emotional games and dishonesty.
Murphy works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Brett, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Brett Murphy has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Brett's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Murphy is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Murphy can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Brett Murphy puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Murphy may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Brett Murphy might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Brett Murphy cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Brett wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Brett Murphy is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Brett Murphy craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Murphy enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Brett Murphy very happy. Brett wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Brett Murphy may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Murphy is a natural host or diplomat.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Brett's nature and Brett Murphy feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Murphy. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Brett Murphy has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Brett's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Brett Murphy is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Murphy is to being left out or unappreciated.
Brett Murphy tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Murphy may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Brett Murphy is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Brett believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Leo
Moon in 10th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Quincunx Saturn
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