Brenda Vacarro
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Brenda should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Vacarro often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Vacarro's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Brenda Vacarro insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Brenda does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Brenda Vacarro feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Vacarro works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Brenda, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

Brenda Vacarro feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Brenda may not realize how competitive she is.

Although Vacarro gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Brenda Vacarro to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about meeting her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Brenda Vacarro and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Brenda Vacarro is apt to do more than her fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

Although Brenda Vacarro was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Brenda's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Brenda Vacarro needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Vacarro. Brenda Vacarro tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Vacarro does not.

In love relationships, Brenda Vacarro seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Brenda, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Brenda Vacarro supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Brenda that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Brenda Vacarro is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Vacarro is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Brenda Vacarro prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Brenda.

Brenda is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Brenda Vacarro very popular.

Brenda has great self-discipline and knows exactly what she can demand of herself. Her love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Brenda Vacarro may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 10th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 7th house

Venus Opposition Saturn/Pluto