Blanche Baker
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in her relationships, Blanche Baker inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in her loved ones. This is good, since she would never settle for anything less! Blanche wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty she feels she is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Baker lavishes on those she cares about. Blanche Baker has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt her feelings is to ignore her. She is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Blanche Baker hates emotional games and dishonesty.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Blanche Baker cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Blanche Baker has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Blanche takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Blanche Baker cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Baker's motto.

Although Baker gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Blanche Baker to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Blanche Baker has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Baker would react more intensely. Blanche is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.

In addition to Blanche's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Blanche Baker craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Baker rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Blanche has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Baker craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Baker and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Blanche Baker is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

Her will tends to be a bit weak and she seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Blanche Baker thinks that she will fail because of her inadequacies as a person. She keeps her feelings to herself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

In love relationships, Blanche Baker seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Blanche, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Blanche Baker supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Blanche that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Blanche Baker is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Blanche Baker craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Blanche loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Baker.

Blanche Baker loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Blanche considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well liked. At times, Blanche Baker overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets it.

Blanche's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Blanche Baker is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Baker is to being left out or unappreciated.

Intimacy does not come easily to Blanche Baker and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Baker does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Blanche Baker needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Blanche Baker experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Blanche Baker has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Blanche Baker can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.

Baker's constitution tends to be on the weak side and she may tire easily. In love relationships she could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Blanche Baker could also have questionable romances that leave Blanche disappointed.

Others may get the impression that Blanche Baker considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Blanche Baker would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 5th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Moon Opposition Mars/Saturn

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC