Beverly Aadland
in Relationships

Open and generous, Beverly Aadland enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Aadland rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Beverly always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Beverly Aadland often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Aadland, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Beverly Aadland to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Beverly's aspirations and ideals. Beverly Aadland also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Beverly Aadland has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Beverly sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Beverly Aadland is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Beverly cannot hide her emotions.

Beverly has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Aadland cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Beverly Aadland either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Beverly Aadland tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Aadland's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Beverly Aadland will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Beverly Aadland insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Beverly Aadland is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Beverly Aadland also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Beverly Aadland very happy. Beverly wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Beverly Aadland may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Aadland is a natural host or diplomat.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Beverly Aadland rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Beverly is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Aadland craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Beverly Aadland needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Aadland is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Beverly Aadland has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Beverly acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Aadland may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Beverly Aadland craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Aadland, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Beverly Aadland tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Aadland resents authority and likes to be different. Beverly Aadland may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Opposition Moon/Uranus