Benji Madden
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Benji Madden inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Benji wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Madden lavishes on those he cares about. Benji Madden has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Benji Madden hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Benji Madden often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Madden thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Benji is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Benji Madden has good psychological insight into others.

Benji Madden has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Benji goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.

Benji Madden responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of his environment and has a need to reform those around him. Benji has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Madden for guidance and direction, and he rarely lets them down.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Benji Madden values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Benji desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Madden, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Benji Madden appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Benji Madden craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Benji loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Madden.

Benji Madden tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Madden may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Benji Madden is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Benji believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Benji Madden causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Venus/MC

Moon Conjunct Pluto/Asc.

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn/Asc.