Ben Whishaw
in Relationships

Open and generous, Ben Whishaw enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Whishaw rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Ben always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Ben Whishaw often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Whishaw, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Ben Whishaw to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Ben's aspirations and ideals. Ben Whishaw also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Ben Whishaw has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Ben sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Ben Whishaw is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Ben wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Ben Whishaw often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Ben Whishaw is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Ben has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Ben Whishaw may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Ben Whishaw is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Ben Whishaw also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Ben is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Ben Whishaw feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

It is hard for Ben Whishaw to express his feelings and emotions to other people. He may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Ben Whishaw tends to feel lonely, even when he is in the company of others.

Ben tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When Ben Whishaw loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn/N. Node

Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC