Ben Kweller in Relationships
Open and generous, Ben Kweller enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Kweller rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Ben always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Ben Kweller often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Kweller, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Ben Kweller to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Ben's aspirations and ideals. Ben Kweller also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Ben has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Ben Kweller may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Kweller's ties to his mother are very strong and Ben also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
There is a side to Ben Kweller that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Kweller can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Kweller. If Ben's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Ben Kweller can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Ben is particularly prone to.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Kweller can be uncompromising at times. Ben Kweller also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
Kweller instinctively knows his mission in life. He is satisfied knowing inside himself what he can do and he does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Ben Kweller is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with his loved ones.
Sensitive and sentimental, Ben Kweller is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Kweller to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Ben Kweller seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Ben likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Kweller is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Ben Kweller thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Ben Kweller has artistic interests and may be attracted to people who are artists, are connected with artistic endeavors or interested in art. He is very sociable and feel more at home in beautiful surroundings.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 4th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Moon Opposition Sun/MC
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/N. Node
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