Bebe Buell in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Bebe Buell rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Buell's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Buell may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Bebe difficult to live with. Bebe Buell needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Buell gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Bebe Buell makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Bebe Buell needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.
Bebe has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Buell cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
In a love relationship, Bebe Buell is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Bebe likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Bebe Buell becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Bebe Buell's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Bebe Buell needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Buell finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Bebe Buell craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Bebe loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Buell.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 11th house
Moon Square Venus
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 8th house
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