Barry Bonds
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own and others' emotions. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Barry should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Bonds often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Bonds' sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Barry Bonds insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Barry does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Barry Bonds feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Barry Bonds a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Barry's past are especially dear to him.

Barry Bonds may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Barry Bonds tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Barry Bonds can create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Barry also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Barry Bonds craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Barry Bonds does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.

His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Bonds may feel inhibited when he is with others. Barry Bonds is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

In love relationships, Barry Bonds is more interested in a person's sense of humor and intelligence than in their physique. Barry likes a partner who is mentally alive and who keeps him guessing a little bit, and Barry Bonds becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, never changes or surprises him. Talking, sharing ideas, going places together, and learning new things together is very important to his happiness. Barry Bonds needs lots of social stimulation, is something of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. A possessive, jealous partner is very stifling for Bonds.

Bonds is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. Barry Bonds prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Barry.

Barry is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes Barry Bonds very popular.

Barry Bonds is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Barry Bonds pursues them very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Doing creative work or artistic work can also satisfy the very strong desire for love and beauty that Barry feels.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node

Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 7th house

Venus Conjunct Mars