Barbara Hutton
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Barbara Hutton denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Barbara Hutton needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Barbara Hutton also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Hutton gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Barbara Hutton makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Barbara Hutton needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.

Barbara Hutton has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Hutton would react more intensely. Barbara is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.

In addition to Barbara's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Barbara Hutton craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Hutton rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Barbara has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Hutton craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Hutton and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Barbara Hutton is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Barbara Hutton flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Barbara Hutton feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Barbara Hutton to learn. Barbara Hutton should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Barbara Hutton, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Barbara does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Barbara Hutton needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating, if Barbara Hutton is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

Her attitude toward other people is very emotional and Barbara Hutton feels a certain soul affinity with them. Barbara has an inner need to express her feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where she can help to further their accomplishments.

In love relationships, Barbara Hutton seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Barbara, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Barbara Hutton supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Barbara that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Barbara Hutton is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Barbara is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Hutton places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Barbara Hutton feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Barbara's nature and Barbara Hutton feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Hutton. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Barbara Hutton has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

It is absolutely essential for Barbara Hutton not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Barbara tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Barbara Hutton will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Barbara Hutton explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Hutton will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Barbara Hutton things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Hutton will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Barbara Hutton needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Barbara Hutton will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.

She is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Barbara Hutton tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If she does not keep this in control, she could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.

Her erotic nature is strong and Barbara Hutton is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, she may have many unorthodox contacts. Barbara has much zest for life, likes her freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.

Her feelings are very rich and Barbara Hutton has an enormous capacity to express her love. She is very cordial and likely to experience happiness in love relationships. Barbara Hutton may also have artistic aspirations or aims and could be very successful in some kind of artistic work.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 11th house

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mars/N. Node

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon

Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mars/Uranus

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/MC