Barbara Cartland
in Relationships

Emotional outbursts are frequent with Barbara Cartland due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Cartland expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Barbara Cartland dislikes showing any personal weaknesses or needs for support, comfort, and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and with others. Barbara abhors emotional dependency and dislike "complainers".

Barbara Cartland inspires others to take positive action in their lives by her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous, and independent. Barbara is rather bossy, but she does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built upon mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Cartland.

Barbara Cartland becomes very cross if she does not have enough vigorous physical activity. Cartland will feels her best if she "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in some other competitive sport) frequently.

Barbara Cartland has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Barbara sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Barbara Cartland is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Barbara cannot hide her emotions.

Barbara Cartland tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Barbara feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Barbara Cartland also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that she is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Cartland to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Barbara Cartland may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.

Although Barbara Cartland was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she has a diametrically opposed tendency as well: The urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Barbara's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Barbara Cartland tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Barbara to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Barbara Cartland may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Barbara Cartland cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Barbara wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone Cartland wholeheartedly admires and can be proud of. Barbara Cartland is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.

Barbara Cartland craves love, appreciation, and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Cartland enjoys some drama and color in her love relationships and grand romantic gestures or an extravagant expression of generosity impresses her.

Barbara Cartland loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Cartland needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner, and she wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to her beloved. Barbara Cartland also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.

Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Barbara Cartland possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Barbara may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Barbara Cartland may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 1st house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Venus in Leo

Venus in 5th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter