Babette van Veen
in Relationships

Babette does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Babette van Veen would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Babette van Veen avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to van Veen. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Though she yearns for close relationships, Babette van Veen often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. van Veen is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Babette van Veen; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Babette van Veen is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Babette van Veen enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Babette wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

When she cares about someone, Babette van Veen likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.

Babette van Veen also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Babette is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.

Babette van Veen appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Babette van Veen will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Babette van Veen to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Babette becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Babette van Veen really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Babette's closest relationships.

It is absolutely essential for Babette van Veen not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Babette tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Babette van Veen will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.

Babette van Veen is extremely sensitive to her surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. van Veen tends to avoid the truth about herself and her relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 8th house

Moon Sextile Saturn

Venus in Aries

Venus in 6th house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Quincunx Neptune

Venus Opposition Uranus/Neptune