Aveline Kushi in Relationships
Aveline Kushi responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Kushi often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Aveline Kushi must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Aveline's need for times of withdrawal.
Aveline Kushi is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Aveline Kushi takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
Kushi gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Aveline Kushi makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Aveline Kushi needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.
She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Aveline Kushi is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Aveline has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Aveline - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.
She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Aveline Kushi often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Aveline Kushi as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Aveline Kushi often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Kushi actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Aveline Kushi to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Aveline Kushi becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Kushi can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Aveline's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Aveline Kushi craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Kushi rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Aveline Kushi craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Kushi also loves to feel free and unfettered.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Aveline Kushi cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Kushi's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Aveline at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Aveline Kushi is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Aveline Kushi may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Aveline desires.
Aveline Kushi loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Kushi needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner and she wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to her beloved. Aveline Kushi also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Aveline Kushi puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Aveline Kushi and she is not happy without a love partner. Kushi can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Aveline Kushi loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Aveline considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well liked. At times, Aveline Kushi overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets it.
Aveline's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Aveline Kushi is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Kushi is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Aveline Kushi rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Aveline is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Kushi craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Aveline Kushi needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
It may be hard for Aveline Kushi to love someone and to express her love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between her and others and she seems very cool to them. Her disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach her.
Aveline Kushi has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in her surroundings. Very interested in art, she is likely to devote her life to beauty and art. She may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 11th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 5th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Opposition Mars/Saturn
Venus Opposition Asc./MC
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