Ashley Cole
in Relationships

Ashley does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Ashley Cole would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Ashley Cole avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Cole. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Ashley Cole often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Cole thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Ashley is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Ashley Cole has good psychological insight into others.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Ashley Cole often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

There is another side to Ashley Cole as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Ashley Cole has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Cole would react more intensely. Ashley is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

Emotionally excitable, Cole tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Ashley as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Ashley Cole seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.

Ashley Cole has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Ashley Cole has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when he is with people. Ashley has the ability to win people over by what he says and how he says it.

Ashley Cole has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Ashley looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Ashley Cole must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.

In love relationships, Ashley Cole seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Ashley, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Ashley Cole supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Ashley that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Ashley Cole is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Ashley Cole craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Ashley loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Cole.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Ashley Cole falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Ashley to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Cole's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Ashley Cole, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Venus

Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Conjunct Uranus