Ashley Benson
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Ashley Benson rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Benson's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Benson may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Ashley difficult to live with. Ashley Benson needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Ashley Benson has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Benson also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Ashley, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Ashley Benson has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Benson would react more intensely. Ashley is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Benson's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Ashley Benson is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Ashley has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Ashley Benson may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because she is so emotionally invested in it.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Ashley Benson values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Ashley desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Benson, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Ashley Benson appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Benson is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Ashley Benson thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Ashley Benson has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well being. It is rare for Ashley to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Benson. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Ashley Benson to channel her passion.

Her tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Ashley Benson possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Ashley may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Ashley Benson may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 6th house

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Quincunx Jupiter