Arthur Schlesinger Jr.
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Arthur's past are especially dear to him.
Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
Arthur has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. and he may have an early desire for marriage.
In love relationships, Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Arthur, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Arthur that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Arthur shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Schlesinger happy.
Sensitive and compassionate, Schlesinger tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Arthur has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Arthur is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Schlesinger may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Conjunct Venus/Mars
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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