Arnold Toynbee
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Arnold Toynbee is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Arnold Toynbee is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

Toynbee depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Arnold's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Arnold Toynbee may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Toynbee's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Arnold Toynbee is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Arnold Toynbee insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

He is likely to be noted for his good looks and good taste in clothes. Arnold Toynbee is able to attract and influence others because he is so pleasant and so sincere in his approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Toynbee also is strongly attached to his home and family.

In love relationships, Arnold Toynbee is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Arnold enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Arnold Toynbee responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Arnold Toynbee, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Toynbee and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Arnold Toynbee appreciates artistic people.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Arnold Toynbee to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Arnold becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Arnold Toynbee really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Arnold's closest relationships.

His nature is harmonious and Arnold radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. Arnold Toynbee may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 7th house

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Opposition Venus/Asc.

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Opposition Moon/Jupiter