Ari Onassis
in Relationships

Open and generous, Ari Onassis enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Onassis rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Aristotle always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Ari Onassis often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Onassis, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Ari Onassis to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Aristotle's aspirations and ideals. Ari Onassis also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Onassis depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Aristotle's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Ari Onassis may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

Ari Onassis often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Onassis actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Ari Onassis to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Ari Onassis becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Onassis can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Ari Onassis feels a certain soul affinity with them. Aristotle has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.

Ari Onassis responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of his environment and has a need to reform those around him. Aristotle has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Onassis for guidance and direction, and he rarely lets them down.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Ari Onassis cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Onassis' reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Aristotle at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Ari Onassis is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Ari Onassis may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Aristotle desires.

Aristotle is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Onassis places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Ari Onassis feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Ari Onassis appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Ari Onassis will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Ari Onassis to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Onassis may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Ari Onassis will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node

Moon Opposition Pluto/Asc.

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Pluto