Apolo Anton Ohno in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Apolo Anton Ohno has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Ohno is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Apolo Anton Ohno seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Ohno tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Apolo's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Apolo Anton Ohno substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Ohno works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Apolo, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Apolo Anton Ohno needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Ohno. Apolo Anton Ohno tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Ohno does not.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Apolo Anton Ohno, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Apolo does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Apolo Anton Ohno needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if Apolo Anton Ohno is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Apolo Anton Ohno immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Apolo Anton Ohno enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Apolo wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Apolo is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Ohno places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Apolo Anton Ohno feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Apolo Anton Ohno and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Apolo allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Apolo Anton Ohno, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Apolo Anton Ohno explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Ohno will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Apolo Anton Ohno things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Ohno will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Apolo Anton Ohno needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.
Apolo has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Apolo Anton Ohno may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 10th house
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Opposition Pluto
Venus Opposition Saturn/Pluto
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