Tony Banks
in Relationships
Tony Banks responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Banks often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Tony Banks must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Tony's need for times of withdrawal.
Tony Banks is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Tony Banks takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Tony Banks often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Banks thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Tony is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Tony Banks has good psychological insight into others.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Tony Banks and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Tony Banks is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tony does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Tony Banks is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
His feelings depend on the conditions in his environment and therefore Tony Banks could be subject to moods. He is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch him deeply. Tony Banks could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of him.
His mind is very impressionable and sometimes his imagination could be a little misguided. Tony Banks loves to daydream and to live in his own world of fantasies. But he is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.
Tony Banks seems to have the wrong conception of the world around him and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Tony to adapt himself and to acquire a community spirit, and he cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that he longs for.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Tony Banks values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Tony desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Banks, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Tony Banks appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Banks is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Tony Banks thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Tony's nature and Tony Banks feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Banks. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Tony Banks has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Sensitive and compassionate, Banks tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Tony has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Tony is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Tony Banks explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Banks will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Tony Banks things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Banks will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Tony Banks needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.
Tony Banks has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/Neptune
Moon Opposition Mercury/Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune/N. Node
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Opposition Pluto
Venus Opposition Moon/Mars
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