Anne Heche
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Anne Heche rarely expresses those feelings openly and freely. Very often Heche's love for someone will be expressed by trying to help them, doing something tangible to benefit them, or serving them in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection, or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Heche can therefore seem rather cool and aloof, much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Anne difficult to live with. Anne Heche needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Heche gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Anne Heche makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Anne Heche needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.

There is a side to Anne Heche which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Heche can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Heche. If Anne's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Anne Heche can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Anne is particularly prone to.

She is tolerant and forgiving, always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Anne Heche expects the best from people and draws it out of them, and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Anne Heche seems quite peaceful and the next she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Anne has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Heche can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate, and often stormy and painful as well.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but it may be difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Anne Heche enjoys a partner who is dynamic and alive, someone with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Anne wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if that means instigating a fight.

Heche is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Anne Heche prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Anne.

Anne is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Anne Heche very popular.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Anne Heche to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Heche may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Anne Heche will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 7th house

Venus Quincunx Pluto