Anne Baxter in Relationships
She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Anne should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Baxter often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Baxter's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Anne Baxter insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Anne does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Anne Baxter feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
Anne has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Anne Baxter may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Baxter's ties to her mother are very strong and Anne also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Anne Baxter cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Baxter's motto.
Although Baxter gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Anne Baxter to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.
Anne Baxter has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Baxter would react more intensely. Anne is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.
Although Anne Baxter was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Anne's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Anne Baxter flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Anne Baxter feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Anne Baxter to learn. Anne Baxter should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Anne Baxter enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Anne wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Anne Baxter loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Baxter needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner and she wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to her beloved. Anne Baxter also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
Anne Baxter has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well being. It is rare for Anne to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Baxter. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Anne Baxter to channel her passion.
Her tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Anne Baxter possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Anne may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Anne Baxter may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Anne's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Anne Baxter is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Baxter is to being left out or unappreciated.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Anne Baxter and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Anne allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Anne Baxter, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Sensitive and compassionate, Baxter tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Anne has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Anne is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Anne Baxter experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Anne Baxter has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Anne Baxter can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.
Anne Baxter thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Baxter relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.
Anne Baxter treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows her affection for them. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Baxter strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 4th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune
Venus in Aries
Venus in 5th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury
Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.
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