Annabel Chong in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Annabel Chong rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Chong's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Chong may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Annabel difficult to live with. Annabel Chong needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Annabel Chong a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Annabel's past are especially dear to her.
Annabel Chong may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Annabel Chong seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Annabel has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Chong can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Chong relates to others on an emotional level, because she feels her emotions so strongly yourself. She is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when she is together with another person.
Sensitive and sentimental, Annabel Chong is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Chong to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Annabel Chong seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Annabel likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.
Chong is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Annabel Chong thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Annabel Chong is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Annabel Chong pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.
Money is liable to be an issue in her life, not because she does not have it, but because Annabel Chong cannot or will not hold onto it. Annabel Chong has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget herself. At Chong's worst, she wants an easy ride and friends will often let Annabel freeload because she is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Chong could let other people take advantage of her hospitality and tolerance.
Chong also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Annabel Chong just wants to have a good time.
It is absolutely essential for Annabel Chong not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Annabel tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Annabel Chong will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.
Annabel Chong experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Annabel Chong has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Annabel Chong can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Opposition N. Node/MC
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
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