Ann Landers
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Ann Landers has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Landers is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Ann Landers seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Landers tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Ann's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Ann Landers substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Though she wants close relationships very much, Ann Landers often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Landers is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

Ann Landers often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Landers actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Ann Landers to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Ann Landers becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Landers can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In a love relationship, Ann Landers is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Ann likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Ann Landers becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Ann Landers' happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Ann Landers needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Landers finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Ann is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Landers places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Ann Landers feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Ann Landers is warmly romantic and she openly expresses her appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. She enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Landers is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because she knows what she wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses her desires honestly.

Ann Landers has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Landers tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Ann Landers might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Her nature is harmonious and Ann radiates happiness so that everyone around her will be in good spirits. Her taste is likely to be elegant and she has a strong desire to surround herself with beauty. Ann Landers may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 8th house

Moon Square Saturn

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Mars

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Conjunct Moon/Jupiter