Andy Gibb in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Andy Gibb rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Gibb's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Gibb may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Andy difficult to live with. Andy Gibb needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Gibb depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Andy's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Andy Gibb may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
There is a side to Andy Gibb that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Gibb can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Gibb. If Andy's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Andy Gibb can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Andy is particularly prone to.
Andy Gibb tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Andy to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Andy Gibb may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Andy Gibb seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Andy has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Gibb can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
His emotional needs are very important to Andy Gibb and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Gibb will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
Andy Gibb has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Andy Gibb values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Andy desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Gibb, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Andy Gibb appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Andy Gibb often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Andy. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Andy Gibb may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Andy Gibb - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Andy Gibb shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Andy's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Andy Gibb also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Andy likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Andy Gibb is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Andy is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Andy Gibb professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Gibb a lot of breathing space.
Andy Gibb has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Andy frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Gibb can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Gibb's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Andy Gibb tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once Andy Gibb enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.
Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Andy Gibb tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Andy has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Opposition Sun/Asc.
Moon Opposition Mercury/Asc.
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn
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