Andrea Tafi in Relationships
Open and generous, Andrea Tafi enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Tafi rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Andrea always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Andrea Tafi often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Tafi, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Andrea Tafi to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Andrea's aspirations and ideals. Andrea Tafi also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Andrea Tafi a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Andrea's past are especially dear to him.
Andrea Tafi may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
Andrea Tafi often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Tafi actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Andrea Tafi to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Andrea Tafi becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Tafi can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
Tafi instinctively knows his mission in life. He is satisfied knowing inside himself what he can do and he does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Andrea Tafi is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with his loved ones.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Tafi tends to be high-strung and impatient. Andrea Tafi knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Andrea Tafi to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. Andrea Tafi could also feel lonely and depressed at times.
He is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and he tries to suppress the jealousy he may feel. Andrea Tafi may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making him a bit hard and unyielding in later life.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Andrea Tafi enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Andrea wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
When he cares about someone, Andrea Tafi likes to show his affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Andrea Tafi also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Andrea is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
Andrea Tafi shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Andrea's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Andrea Tafi also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Andrea likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Andrea's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Andrea Tafi is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Tafi is to being left out or unappreciated.
Intimacy does not come easily to Andrea Tafi and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Tafi does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Andrea Tafi needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Opposition Sun/MC
Moon Opposition Mars/MC
Moon Opposition Saturn/Uranus
Moon Opposition Saturn/Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 6th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn
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