Amy Winehouse
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Amy should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Winehouse often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Winehouse's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Amy Winehouse insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Amy does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Amy Winehouse feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Amy Winehouse often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Winehouse thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Amy is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Amy Winehouse has good psychological insight into others.

She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Amy Winehouse is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Amy has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Amy - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.

Amy Winehouse takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Amy Winehouse actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although Amy Winehouse was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Amy's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Amy Winehouse tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Amy to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Amy Winehouse may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Amy Winehouse insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

Amy has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and her emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Amy Winehouse and she may have an early desire for marriage.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Winehouse may feel inhibited when she is with others. Amy Winehouse is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Amy Winehouse cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Amy wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Amy Winehouse is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.

Amy Winehouse craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Winehouse enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Amy is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Amy Winehouse feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Amy Winehouse is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Amy Winehouse pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Sensitive and compassionate, Winehouse tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Amy has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Amy is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Amy Winehouse seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for her or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Winehouse could have a kind of tragic love union.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Opposition Venus/Mars

Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Leo

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Conjunct Pluto/N. Node