Amy Dumas in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Amy Dumas has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Dumas is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Amy Dumas seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Dumas tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Amy's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Amy Dumas substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Dumas gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Amy Dumas makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Amy Dumas needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.
No matter how she appears on the surface, Amy Dumas has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Amy's sympathetic, affectionate side. She especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and she wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as she does. Dumas is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Amy Dumas tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Amy Dumas becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.
Amy Dumas tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Amy Dumas could create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides her with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Amy that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Amy Dumas craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.
In a love relationship, Amy Dumas is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Amy likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Amy Dumas becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Amy Dumas' happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Amy Dumas needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Dumas finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Dumas is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Amy Dumas thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Amy Dumas puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Amy Dumas and she is not happy without a love partner. Dumas can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Amy Dumas to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Amy becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Amy Dumas really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Amy's closest relationships.
Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Amy Dumas tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Amy has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.
Amy Dumas finds it easy to demonstrate her love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Dumas tends to reveal her most personal feelings to people in her intimate circle of friends.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 11th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Square Mars
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
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