Ammachi
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Ammachi has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Mata Amritanandamayi Devi is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Ammachi seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Mata Amritanandamayi Devi tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Amma's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Ammachi substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Mata Amritanandamayi Devi depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Amma's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Ammachi may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Amma has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Mata Amritanandamayi Devi cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Mata Amritanandamayi Devi can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Ammachi puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Mata Amritanandamayi Devi may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Ammachi might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Ammachi is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Ammachi also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Ammachi very happy. Amma wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Ammachi may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Mata Amritanandamayi Devi is a natural host or diplomat.

Ammachi is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Ammachi pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Mars