Amber Valletta
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Amber Valletta rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Valletta's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Valletta may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Amber difficult to live with. Amber Valletta needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Amber Valletta cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Amber Valletta has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Amber takes risks on impulse or whim.

Amber Valletta feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Amber Valletta often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Valletta actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Amber Valletta to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Amber Valletta becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Valletta can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Her emotional excitability is very strong and Valletta tends to be high-strung and impatient. Amber Valletta knows what she wants to accomplish, she forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Amber Valletta to back down gracefully when she is confronted.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Amber Valletta cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Valletta's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Amber at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Amber Valletta is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Amber Valletta may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Amber desires.

Amber is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Valletta places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Amber Valletta feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Amber Valletta tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Valletta may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Amber Valletta is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Amber believes she has - is so important for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

When it comes to love relationships, Valletta is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Amber Valletta has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Amber acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Valletta may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Amber Valletta craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Valletta, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Amber Valletta has a passionate nature and a strong expression of her sexuality. Her creative energies also are strong and she may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Her attitude is positive and harmonious and Amber Valletta impresses others as a very caring individual. She is very friendly and pleasant when she is with other people and knows how to make herself popular. She is likely to have a very happy family life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 5th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Mars/MC

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Opposition Moon/Mars

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node