Alicia Witt in Relationships
She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Alicia should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Witt often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Witt's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Alicia Witt insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Alicia does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Alicia Witt feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
Alicia Witt often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Witt thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Alicia is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Alicia Witt has good psychological insight into others.
Generally sunny and optimistic, Alicia Witt has a cheering effect on those around her. Alicia likes and needs people, and others genuinely like her too. She enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to her. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for her emotional well-being.
There is another side to Alicia Witt as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Witt can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Alicia Witt puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Witt may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Alicia Witt might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
In addition to Alicia's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Alicia Witt craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Witt rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Alicia Witt craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Witt also loves to feel free and unfettered.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Alicia Witt is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Alicia Witt also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Alicia is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Witt places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Also, Alicia Witt feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Alicia Witt puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Alicia Witt and she is not happy without a love partner. Witt can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Alicia Witt has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Alicia frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Witt can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Witt's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Alicia Witt has a good understanding of her own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Witt because of her gentle, kind and friendly manner and she may feel especially drawn to young people.
Alicia Witt has a propensity for clandestine and secret love affairs and tends to keep her relationships hidden. Alicia could find herself in some peculiar relationships where she or her partner could be reluctant to make an external commitment.
Alicia Witt has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but her somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Alicia Witt loves her work and may connect her profession with a hobby in some way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Venus Opposition Mars/Neptune
Venus Opposition Mars/Asc.
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