Alessandro Calcaterra challenges and difficulties
Calcaterra is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Alessandro Calcaterra may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Alessandro.
He may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Alessandro Calcaterra does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend himself from its dangers and its unknowns. Alessandro Calcaterra must learn to overcome his ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Alessandro has an inner conflict between idealism, hope and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression due to limitations and practical realities. Alessandro Calcaterra needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve his aspirations. Calcaterra will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
He is inclined to be somewhat withdrawn and has a hard time discussing important matters with his family and close relationships. As a serious and deep thinker, Alessandro Calcaterra would like to explain his views to others, but has a difficult time finding the right words.
He is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. As he lacks the capacity to adapt, Alessandro Calcaterra may encounter considerable tension in his relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
Calcaterra is aware of his own shortcomings and is able to overcome many frustrations and limitations. He concentrates on his aims and goes about achieving them, even if he has to sacrifice something in the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Alessandro Calcaterra instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Alessandro Calcaterra needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Alessandro Calcaterra to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Alessandro Calcaterra needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Alessandro directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Calcaterra's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Calcaterra's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Alessandro Calcaterra needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Alessandro Calcaterra back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Alessandro Calcaterra is not in the least bit selfish and he has the ability to share the joy he feels with other people. Alessandro seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
He is likely to offer help and protection to people around him and promote moral values. Alessandro Calcaterra stands up for social justice and unselfishly works for the good of his community. , Alessandro Calcaterra refuses any kind of personal advantage and lives in harmony with everyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 12th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Mars/Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/MC
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Venus/Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Saturn
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