Alec Guinness in Relationships
Alec does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Alec Guinness would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Alec Guinness avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Guinness. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Alec Guinness often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Guinness thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Alec is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Alec Guinness has good psychological insight into others.
Alec Guinness genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Alec Guinness to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Guinness also.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Alec Guinness seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Alec has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Guinness can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Alec Guinness enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Alec wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Guinness is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Alec Guinness is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Alec uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Alec Guinness does.
Alec Guinness has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Alec frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Guinness can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Guinness' love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 1st house
Venus Square Neptune
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