Alan Leo
in Relationships

Emotional outbursts are frequent with Alan Leo due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Leo expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Alan Leo dislikes showing any personal weaknesses or needs for support, comfort, and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and with others. Alan abhors emotional dependency and dislike "complainers".

Alan Leo inspires others to take positive action in their lives by his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous, and independent. Alan is rather bossy, but he does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built upon mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Leo.

Alan Leo becomes very cross if he does not have enough vigorous physical activity. Leo will feels his best if he "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in some other competitive sport) frequently.

Alan Leo may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Leo has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. Alan Leo wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Alan is restless and something of a wanderer.

Alan has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Leo cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Alan Leo tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Alan Leo becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he does not have enough vigorous physical activities or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Alan Leo does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Leo tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Alan Leo enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Sensitive and sentimental, Alan Leo is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places, and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and the remembrance of birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals, and other days of personal significance is very important to Leo. Alan Leo seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Alan likes to be needed, to cherish and protect his loved ones, and he is somewhat possessive of them.

Leo is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Alan Leo thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Alan Leo simply does not feel alive without vibrant, passionate love relationships in his life, and if his romantic urges are frustrated or if his intimate relationships become too tame or mellow, Alan Leo will do something to stir up the fires. Fighting, competition, tumultuous conflict, and fiery love-making are natural ways in which Alan Leo relates. He may be more selfish and demanding than he realizes.

His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Alan Leo longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Leo tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.

It is easy for Alan Leo to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Alan likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 9th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon Sextile Uranus

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 11th house

Venus Opposition Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn/Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.