Adela Rogers St. Johns
in Relationships

Open and generous, Adela Rogers St. Johns enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. St. Johns rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Adela always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Adela Rogers St. Johns often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to St. Johns, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Adela Rogers St. Johns to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Adela's aspirations and ideals. Adela Rogers St. Johns also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Adela has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Adela Rogers St. Johns may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. St. Johns' tie to her mother is very strong and Adela Rogers St. Johns also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.

Adela Rogers St. Johns feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Gregarious and fun loving, she is always out to have a good time. Adela Rogers St. Johns tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Adela Rogers St. Johns to say no, especially when St. Johns' emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, she is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Adela Rogers St. Johns flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Adela Rogers St. Johns feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Adela Rogers St. Johns to learn. Adela Rogers St. Johns should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Adela Rogers St. Johns that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and St. Johns' neediness often drives others away. When Adela Rogers St. Johns does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. St. Johns will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Adela Rogers St. Johns will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; St. Johns tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Adela may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Adela Rogers St. Johns immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Adela Rogers St. Johns enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Adela wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Adela Rogers St. Johns craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Adela loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for St. Johns.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Adela Rogers St. Johns and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Adela allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Adela Rogers St. Johns, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

When it comes to love relationships, St. Johns is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Adela Rogers St. Johns has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Adela acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Adela Rogers St. Johns to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Adela becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Adela Rogers St. Johns really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Adela's closest relationships.

Adela Rogers St. Johns has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, St. Johns tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Adela Rogers St. Johns might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 8th house

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Sextile Neptune