Abigail Folger
in Relationships

Open and generous, Abigail Folger enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Folger rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Abigail always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Abigail Folger often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Folger, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Abigail Folger to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Abigail's aspirations and ideals. Abigail Folger also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Abigail, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.

Abigail Folger frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.

Folger identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Abigail Folger tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Abigail feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Abigail Folger also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that she is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Folger to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Abigail Folger may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.

Although Folger gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Abigail Folger to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Abigail Folger either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Abigail Folger tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Folger's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Abigail Folger will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

Although Abigail Folger was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Abigail's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Abigail does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Abigail Folger is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Abigail Folger is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Abigail Folger also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Abigail Folger craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Abigail loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Folger.

Abigail Folger is warmly romantic and she openly expresses her appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. She enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Folger is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because she knows what she wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses her desires honestly.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Abigail Folger rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Abigail is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Folger craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Abigail Folger needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

Abigail Folger has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Abigail tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.

It is easy for Abigail Folger to show others the love she feels for them and she talks freely to them about her feelings. Abigail likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify her environment as quickly as possible, once she has come up with an idea to do so.

Abigail tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When Abigail Folger loves someone, she loves with her whole heart and is inclined to reveal her most inner and private feelings.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 12th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 8th house

Venus Trine Mars

Venus Square Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune

Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.

Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC